I can veiw the videos on my tv, create dvd's, and watch it on my
computer but i can't figure out how to convert the video to a format
that I can post on youtube or other video sharing sites that our
family uses. What program can convert the files for me?

The file formats in the folder are vr_mangr.bup, vr_movie.vro, and the
inter vidoe windvd file is vr_mangr.ifo

I have contacted Panasonic and they said to serach for a program to do
the conversion.