After getting a new monitor, I screwed around with the Display Properties-
Appearance- Advanced settings before I realized that there isn't an option
to reset defaults.

Is there a way to reset to defaults, and if not, would somebody running a
monitor at 1600X1200 be willing to post their settings for item/font size
(the default values are different for different resolutions it appears,
because I can't get close using my wife's computer as a guide- it's at a
lower res and isn't capable of 1600X1200).

Thanks,
Fitz