1- Stop watching a folder and remove it from my Video Library?

The Problem IS: I have added several network folders to my Video Library
collection in Vista MCE (Home Premium), and when these network resources are
NOT available, It takes VMCE an extreamly longtime to access the video
library collection. I have already STOPPED watching these network folders
and they no longer show as being watched, but the folders still appear in the
Library collection, when those network resources ARE available. And when
they are NOT available it just slows the process down of openning the library.

2- How do I remove folders from my Video Library Collection? without
deleting them from my system...

I have several folders that are NOT even being watched (they never were
being watched)... For example: C:\my TV Shows\CSI, where the watched folder
IS "CSI" and the shared resource IS "my TV Shows"... The extra folder that
shows up IS "C:\" which contains only program video demos used for the
programs on my computer.

3- How do I keep the "window" sizing? I open a window (any window) and
resize it to my liking, but Vista doesn't remember the sizing change next
time I open this window. It will always be at the original default size
(small)... How can I force it to remember the sizing change? In Win XP it was
simple just hold the <shift> key when closing the window and the new size was
remembered until changed next...

4- How do I Force recorded TV shows to be saved with filenames such as
"series Name, Episode Name, ch #, network name, etc... Under WinXP MCE I
could use a program called "MCE 2005 Customizer" to do this, but it doesn't
work under Vista and the program writer is nlonger supportting it... Once it
is set, I don't need to change it... So, if there's a registry setting that
could be changed to cause this, I will try it... It seems like all the info
is there in the Mega Tag of the TV show because it shows the Series Name and
Episode Name in the Vidoe clip thumbnail itself, but not as the filename....

my Thanks to anyone who responds...